Ares the … Momma’s Boy?

So, Mother’s day was celebrated here in the States a couple of weeks ago, and shortly thereafter, Neos Alexandria  announced its Call for Submissions for a devotional to Ares’ mother Hera. This project is being led by my friend Lykeia, and you can check out the announcement here. With all the to-do about Moms, and especially Hera, I wrote the following about Ares and his heavenly mother.

 

Ares is many things; he is a soldier, a general, a father, and a lover. But did you know Ares is also a momma’s boy? It’s true! Just as his sister Athene can be seen as the quintessential daddy’s girl, Ares acts much the same for his heavenly mother Hera.

So what exactly qualifies Ares as a momma’s boy? We should take a look at the relationship between Ares and Hera . Much of this relationship is defined my Hera’s relationship to Ares’ father, Zeus, and Ares’ role as one of the few “legitimate” children of the couple. In particular, the relationship is one of Ares attempting to restore Hera’s honor in the face of Zeus’ infidelity, and acting as he does best as the agent of righteous fury and retribution on Zeus’ lovers.

Let’s examine the most famous example of this behavior. First there is poor Leto, mother to the divine twins Apollon and Artemis (both of whom are tied in various war-cults and rituals to Ares). Hera, in her fury against Leto and the illegitimate children she carried, dispatched Ares to ensure she had no safe haven in which to bear these children. Besides the issue of family integrity, Callimachus suggests Hera wants no woman, divine or mortal, to bear  to Zeus “a son dearer even than Ares” (an interesting counterpoint to the enmity between Zeus and Ares in the Iliad). After all, if the trend in myth were to continue, Ares would be next in line for the proverbial, or even literal, throne.

In addition, there is the case of Hera’s binding by her son Hephaestos. Now, while Hera probably had this one coming; she threw her own son, begotten of none, from Olympos in disgust. That’s not very nice. However, Ares is always ready to jump in for mom, and this was no exception. Ares waged war on Hephaestos to try to return him to Olympos and free their mother, but was turned away by Hephaestos’ superior weapons. The outcome of all this would eventually lead to Hephaestos marrying Aphrodite, and thus the famous love affair with Ares.

So what can we take from these myths? Superficially, we can obviously say Ares loves his mother and attempts to support her even when she is in the wrong. Also, you can’t stop fate, and Ares can be kind of a dick (I mean, harassing a pregnant lady, really?). If we look a little deeper, however, we see how Ares reinforces his position and role as a defender of law, honor, and righteousness, as well as an agent of divine wrath and punishment. Especially if you consider that, up until this point in the mythological timeline, he is not yet an adulterer. I would postulate that before this point (and maybe even after), you could consider Ares a defender of monogamy and the bindings of marriage. Of course, there was never any literary or cultic evidence of this, and is only my speculation.

The relationship between Hera and Ares, of course, help to reinforce Ares’ relationship with Aphrodite and his children. He is a fiercely devoted husband and father, and answers any threat or slight to either with extreme prejudice. Perhaps Ares can serve as a model of family loyalty and honor in a time when the family is decreasing in importance and stature. After all, blood is thicker than water, and who knows more about blood than Ares the Bloody?

Apologies

Memorial Day is a day of remembering death, so today, I dedicate my blog to the men I couldn’t save during my tour of duty. Bear with me, but here are their names:
Gallo, Giovanni
Lewis, Lex L.
Marchini, Scelto Roberto
Tuccillo, Gaetano
Soufrine, Eric D.
Miotto, Matteo
Ville, Sebastian
Pedone, Marco
Manca, Gianmarco
Vannozzi, Francesco
Romani, Alessandro
Farley, Derek J.
Repkie, Robert K. L.
Justesen, Anthony T.
Cartwright, Charles I.
Ochoa Jr., Alfonso
Ramirez, Joel A.
Wren, Charles J.
Atim, Paul J.
Hutchinson, Dea
Wood, Robert
Marshall, Kyle Cleet
Lewis, Conrad
Hendry, Lewis
Swanson, Aaron M.
Beckett, Colin
Pyeatt, Lucas T.
Dalzell, David
Muhr, Shawn A.
Campbell, Joshua R.
Bell, Martin Simon George
Amores, Jason G.
Whitehead, Joseph C.
Enig, Samuel
Giese, Joseph R.
Tate, Jacob A.
Vatubua, Joseva Saqanagonedau
Htaik, Maung P.
Wood, Charles
Nguyen, Tevan L.
Misener, Garrett A.
Corzine, Kenneth A.
Dunn, Steven Thomas
Crouse IV, William H.
Torbert Jr., Eric M.
Maldonado, Jose L.
Osterman, Sean A.
Schmalstieg, Justin E.
Hernandez, Jose A.
Green, Stacy A.
Geary, Michael E.
Peto, Jason D.
Rusk, Colton W.
Wyatt, Derek A.
Howard, John
Scott, Lucas C.
Abbate, Matthew
Wade, Chad S.
Donnelly IV, William J.
Buenagua, Ardenjoseph A.
Smith, Jason T.
Davies, Christopher
Ortiz Rivera, Javier O.
Jørgen Randrup
McCormick, Aaron
Stack, James B.
Huse, Dakota R.
Kelly, Robert M.
Braggs, Randy R.
Emrick, Jordan B.
McCluskey, Jason J.
Pearson, Brandon W.
Broehm, Matthew J.
Zimmerman, James R.
Blanchard, William
Land, Brett W.
Honeycutt Jr., Terry E.
Jørgensen, Mikkel
Barnsdale, David
Jackson, Francisco R.
Cullins, Joshua J.
Villarreal Jr., Jorge
Tawney, Ian M.
Boelk, James D.
Catherwood, Alec E.
Lopez, Joseph C.
Ceniceros, Irvin M.
Cain, Justin J.
Vinnedge, Phillip D.
Rodewald, Joseph E.
Dew, Victor A.
Johnson, Raymon L. A.
Zaehringer III, Frank R.
Rayner, Peter Anthony
Sparks, John T.
Gonzalez, Edwin
Sockalosky, Stephen C.
Lynch, Scott A.
Gurung, Suraj
Vogeler, Lance H.
Matteoni, Anthony D.
Jackson, Timothy M.
Fabbri, Ralph J.
Thomas, Matthew
Rosa, Anthony J.
Jørgensen, Simon Mundt
Ose, Joshua S.
Jones, Andrew James
Howarth, Andrew Martin
Fleming, Scott J.
Johnson, Timothy L.
Deady, Darren
Bishop, John C.
Charte, Philip G. E.
Shukvani, Mukhran
Griffiths, Andrew
Pool, Joseph McFarlane
Balthaser, Jesse M.
Carver, Ross S.
Twigg, Joshua T.
Rodgers, Christopher B.
Roberts, Cody A.
Bovia, Joseph A.
Sikka, Herdis
Goetz, Dale A.
Infante, Jesse
Kessler, Kevin J.
West, Matthew J.
Clements, Chad D.
Holley, Floyd E. C.
Ide, James R.
Fedder, Daniel L.
Swink, James Michael
Newton, Robert J.
Rodriguez, Ronald A.
Calo, Jason D.
Bancroft, Jordan Dean
Schultz, Nathaniel J. A.
Childers, Cody S.
Boyd, Christopher J.
Oratowski, Kevin E.
Gurung, Ishwor
Foster, Darren
Bock, Michael A.
Kulung, Remand
Sanderson, John Charles
Saenz III, Jose L.
Greer, Kristopher D.
Petersen, Jimmi Bøgebjerg
Rolandsen, Erik Berre
Gammone III, Vincent E.
Cornelius, Kevin M.
Donahue, Max W.
Brown, Adam
McCallum, Dale Alanzo
Holbrook, Jason E.
Warren, Kyle R.
Martin, Shane R.
Howard, Abram L.
Smith, Mark
Vazquez, Frederik E.
Weis, James M.
Carazo, Mario D.
Pløger, Jonas Peter
Monkhouse, Stephen Daniel
Stenton, Matthew James
Vargas, Julio
Miller, Paul J.
Wrightsman, Joe L.
Eastman, Christopher L.
Monkhouse, David Thomas
Linley, Brett George
Griffiths, Kinikki “Griff”
Crookes, David Thomas
Bartelt, Justus S.
Santos, Dave M.
Harrison, Matthew
Pun, Arjun Purja
Turkington, Neal
Bowman, James Joshua
Antonik, Christopher J.
Roads, Tyler A.
Raney, Daniel G.
Robinson, Samuel Joseph
Hart, David Charles
Sephton, Thomas
Wisniewski, David A.
Stephens, Seth
Harris Jr., Larry D.
Kirkpatrick, Jamie
Gilbert, Stephen Raymond
Richards, William T.
Caskey, Joseph D.
DeBoer, Daane Adam
Horton, Martyn Simon
Ramsden, David
Isaac, Alex
Halliday, Douglas
Darbyshire, Steven William
Taylor, Michael
Patino IV, Claudio
Cueto, Kevin A.
Warren, Paul
Serwinowski, Timothy G.
Hollington, Richard
Smith, Ashley
Ortega, William
Rogoiruwai, Taniela Tolevu
Bailey, Michael C.
Standfest, Jeffrey R.
Tagitaginimoce, Ponipate
Birdsall, Steven James
Kristiansen, Martin
Breeze, Andrew
Brummund, Gavin R.
Monk, Jonathan Michael
Plank, Michael G.
Flores, Michael P.
Gentz, Joel C.
Smith, David C.
White, Benjamin D.
Chandler, Mark
Walters, Zachary J.
Shanfield, Derek L.
Rankel, John K.
Bury, Brandon C.
Hernandez, Derek
Marler, Donald M.
Webster, Terry
Cochran, Alan David
Hotine, Anthony Dean
Bruun, Sophia
Taylor, Scott Gregory
Dilisio, Anthony A.
Suter, Jake W.
Leicht, Jacob C.
Curley, Stephen Paul
Cusack, Zak
Fingar, Jason D.
Walker, Stephen
Clark, Philip P.
Xavier Jr.,Patrick
Paradarodriguez, Nicholas D.
Perkins, Adam L.
Wood, Zarian
Desforges, Joshua D.
Lamar II, Donald J.
Johnson, Jeffery W.
May, Jr., Kenneth B.
Shea, Kurt S.
Harrison, Christopher Lewis
Comfort, Kyle A.
Davis, Joshua M.
Penny, Richard R.
Rangel, Christopher
Barrett, Brandon A.
Buxton, Barry
Roy, Daryn
Holmes, Harvey Alex
Rivers Jr., Thomas E.
Caron, Joseph T.
Durkin, Sean M.
Burgess, Jonathan Antony
Turner, Mark
Swenson, Curtis M.
Sweeney, Michael
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Griffin, Tyler O.
Holkham, Daniel
Woodgate, Jonathan
Ross, Jacob A.
Centanni, Rick. J.
Cottle, Robert. J.
Campbell, Steven
Wilson, Justin J.
Clarkson, Joel D.
Grigg, James
Hardy, Scott
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Porto, Jonathan D.
Gamble, Garrett W.
Thompson, Stephen
Keogh, Tom
Maughan, Liam
Allott, Jonothon Michael
Paci, Anthony A.
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Green, Richard
Apolis, Carlo
Aragon, Carlos A.
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Kinggett, Martin
Hanson, Matthias N.
Ward, Eric L.
Peak, Adam D.
Eckard, Christopher W.
Stultz, Gregory S.
Birchfield, Joshua H.
Dalzell, Douglas
Walker, David “Davey”
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McQueary, Jeremy R.
Coutu, Kyle J.
Johnson, Larry M.
Yazzie, Alejandro J.
Currier, Eric D.
Pier, Noah M.
Mellors, Guy
Estopinal, Jason H.
Dawson, Sean
Marshall, Mark
Greenhalgh, Dave
Turbett, Jacob H.
Hicks, Darren
Markland, David
McDonald, Sean
Moore, John
Shaw,Graham
Riley, Liam
Freeman Jr., Michael L.
Smith, David J.
Cooper, Daniel
Smith, Zachary D.
Angus, Daniel M.
Poole, Timothy J.
Kane, Jeremy M.
Aldridge, Peter
Farmer, Luke
Brownson, Corporal Lee
Hrbek, Christopher R.
Read, Daniel
Ingham, Matthew N.
Lowe, Jamie R.
Uzenski, Nicholas K.
Meinert, Jacob A.
Juarez, Mark D.
Hoffmann, Simon Sejer
Hayes, Robert
Watson, David
Howell, Aidan
Brown. Tommy
Roebuck, Omar G.
Roney, Christopher
Pritchard, Michael David
Kropov, Serge
Hornby, Simon
Jalakas, Kristjan
Kirkness, David Leslie
Brown, James Stephen
Campbell Jr., Anthony C.
Latorre, Xhacob
Drane, Adam Paul
Taylor, Jonathan A.
Amer, John Paxton
Nielsen, Kenneth Patrick
Hand, Nicholas J.
Loughran-Dickson, Robert David
Marlton-Thomas, Loren Owen Christopher
Fentiman, Andrew
Hefner, Shawn P.
Swanson, Justin J.
Bassett, John Samuel
Allen, Philip
Scott, Phillip
Webster-Smith, Nicholas
Chant, Darren
Major, James
Boote, Steven
Telford, Matthew
Schmid, Olaf Sean George
Ruiz, Cesar B.
Stanley, Cody R.
Mitchell, David S.
Fleury, Gregory M.W.
Jones, Eric A.
Van De Giesen, Kyle R.
Ebert, Michael
Oakland, James
Baker, David Raymond
Cauley, George W.
Taylor, Aaron J.
Hill, James
Janes, Jamie
Hill, Kevin O.
Wojtak, Marcin
Carse, Nathan B.
Carroll, Patrick R.
Lancaster, Joshua T.
Creamer, Zainah C.
Near, Robert J.
Beckerman, Michael J.
Javier Jr., Conrado D.
Martin, Steve
Collins, Sean M.
McLawhorn Jr., Willie A.
Deans, Patrick D.
Necochea Jr., Kenneth E.
Simonetta, Derek T.
Villacis, Jorge E.
Middleton, William K.
Flannery, Sean M.
Holder, Kyle M.
Culbreth, Justin E.
Senft, David P.
Carroll, Jacob C.
Carver, Jacob R.
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Paranzino, Michael F.
Young, James C.
Meari, Andrew N.
Curtis, Jonathan M.
Dickmyer, Adam L.
Sadell, Charles M.
Dupont, Steven L.
Jenkins, Gerald R.
Powell, Matthew C.
Johnson, Daniel J.
Prentler, Joseph T.
Board, Cody A.
Officer, Justin A.
Morrison, Donald Scott
Simpson, Mark A.
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Yates, Eric
Newman, Jaime C.
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Kramer, Aaron K.
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Maldonado, Alexis V.
Brown, Jason
Karch, Christopher N.
Rappuhn, Bradley D.
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Stout, Kyle B.
Stansbery, Michael L.
Collier, Brian
Piercy, Brian F.
Allen, Justin B.
Tilton, Jesse R.
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Jarrell, John H.
King, Brandon M.
Goeke, Christopher S.
Stout, Christopher T.
Tate, Sheldon L.
Moon, Christopher J.
Garvin, Nathaniel D.
Ainsworth, Jesse W.
Cabacoy, Christopher F.
Wood, Edwin C.
McGarrah, Clayton D.
Jefferson, David
Miller, Andrew
Giesebrecht, Kristal
Loredo, Edwardo
Palmer, Scott Travis
Aplin, Timothy James
Chuck, Benjamin
MacNeil, James Patrick
Silk, Brandon M.
Hunter, James P.
Park, Benjamin J.
Adams, Christian M.
Neenan, Brendan P.
Goudreault, Martin
Theinert, Joseph J.
Peney, Jonathan K.
Rudd, Larry John Zuidema
McKay, Kevin
Blake, Douglas Craig
Coleman, Mark W.
Laborde, John K.
Ingram Jr, Michael K.
Todd, Tyler William
Brunkhorst, Scott W.
Santos-Silva, Carlos M.
Fitzpatrick, Darren James
Whetten, Glen J.
Dikcis, Alan N.
Gelig, Ian T.D.
Southgate, Luke
Gorra, Marcos
Salvacion, JR Robiniol
Reiners, John A.
Wittman, Jeremiah T.
Pagan, Bobby J.
Baker, Joshua Caleb
Williams, Charles A.
Gill, Carlos E.
Pena, Paul
Ginett, Adam K.
Faught, John
Wright, Kyle J.
Smith, Bradley R.
Dion, John P.
Lengstorf, Joshua A.
Bowman, Brian R.
Miok, George
Taylor, Kirk
McCormack, Zachery
Chidley, Garrett William
Johnston, Jason M.
Gutierrez, David H.
Nuttall, Andrew
Ware, Albert D.
McLeod, Jason A.
Lewis, Joseph M.
Aamot, Aaron S.
Gooch Jr., Gary L.
Marshall, Steven
Boyes, Justin Garrett
Bates, Jr. Brian R.
Gonzalez, Luis M.
De La Rosa, Fernando
Griffin, Dale R.
Jackson, Issac B.
Williamson, Patrick O.
Stanker, Jared D.
Walz, Christopher I.
Mason, Thomas
Michel, Devin J.
Coumas, Kyle A.
Dahl Jr., Michael A.
Rudzinski, Christopher M.
Stivison, Jr., Glen H.
Flores, Jr. Jesus O.
Lawson, Daniel C.
Styer, Brandon M.
Sklaver, Benjamin A.
Newton Jr., Alan H.
Sanchez, Roberto D.

Sorry I failed, gents. I’ll see you in Hades when my time comes…

Blood Lust

I’ve been putting off this topic for a while, mostly because it isn’t very fun to talk about killing people, let alone enjoying it. It’s not even a matter of political correctness; the act of a human killing another human is pretty much a universal taboo in most contexts, which makes it an uncomfortable subject to talk about. Despite this, Ares revels in killing. His titles such as Brotoloigos (manslaughtering), Andreiphontes (Destroyer of Men), and Thouros (Violent), among others, give testimony to this. Ares does have a softer side, as previously discussed, but war, violence, and killing is his primary MO. So, if killing and destroying other people is so taboo, why do we worship a killer god?

Let’s make it very clear from the outset that I neither promote nor condone the arbitrary murder of people for the sake of murder. Violence, especially deadly violence, should always be considered after long deliberation and should never be the first option you pick, and it should never be picked frivolously. That being said, violence can and does solve problems, despite the politically correct answer to the contrary. Often, it may be the only solution viable; after all, people like Hitler or Mao weren’t really into negotiating their position. Remember, the maxim stated Avoid/Shun Murder (Φονου απεχου), not the Abrahamic religions’ commandment Thou Shall not Kill/Murder (לֹא תִּרְצָח). Most systems, our own and the monotheists’ included, make exceptions for warfare, capital punishment, and self-defense. But many carry it beyond those exceptions, in both cultures.

Okay, so if we can agree that in many cases killing another person is wrong, why then does it still occur? Moving beyond criminal theory, which I am not qualified to comment on, I think much of it has to do with the inherent nature of man. Man, as a creature and a conceptual whole, has an innate drive to create things. Part of this drive, I believe, is what causes our desire to destroy things that hinder our creation, including other people. Just as a tree is destroyed to create a book, men will band together to destroy other men or nations so they may use their enemies’ land and resources to create new things/nations/people with. While this simple analogy could never capture the complexities of geopolitics and sociological conflict in humans, I feel it does begin to scrape the surface. Deep down in the human psyche, man feels an urge to destroy things, and may derive satisfaction from it. This is, in essence, blood lust. This is Ares.

While the concept of blood lust may seem abhorrent to your general sensibilities, I want to look at how it manifests and drives humanity and history. Essentially, I want to highlight how Ares affects the world. To do this, I’ll show you how blood lust affects and manifests at the individual level, the societal and cultural level, and then how history, and Ares, have tied the two together to get us to where we are now.

Generally, you don’t hear much about blood lust at the personal level, except in the case of a rare psychopath like the Zodiac killer. Often, a person’s inner blood lust manifests as little thoughts that are instantly dismissed by the rational brain, such as when you hope the asshole who just cut you off gets murdered in his sleep (I have road rage issues sometimes…). You get a sudden violent impulse which normally instantly subsides. I can’t go so far as to say the feeling is universal, but for most of the people I know, it’s there. There’s also a thrill you get out of being violent. Have you ever taken a martial arts class, or got in a fight (verbal or physical), or even been in combat and noticed the rush you got as adrenaline and other chemicals began flowing through your body? It can be rather intense, and even feel pretty damn good. I remember hunting down Taliban insurgents in Afghanistan and getting quite a rush when bullets and bombs would start to fly and we’d begin positioning troops and calling in airstrikes and artillery. People were going to die, and I liked doing it. Individually, blood lust can hold quite a lot of sway, but it isn’t really conducive to a functioning society, which brings me to our second point.

We have a love/hate relationship with violence and blood lust in Western society, especially the US. Our constitution guarantees most access to deadly weapons, and we have the highest gun violence rate of any industrialized nation. This is ironic, because Finland has higher per capita gun ownership and only a small fraction of the violent crime. Obviously, there’s something cultural about violence, too. While we hate and decry actual violence, it is a huge part of popular culture in the US and many other countries. We spend billions of dollars every year on violent video games, sports, movies, and television every year. Billions! Just take a look at what’s on the news right now, or at the collection of video games in your house. Chances are, they have some sort of violence depicted. The recent book series and now movie The Hunger Games was a box office hit, and is essentially about a world where people look forward to watching an annual death match between children. Kids killing kids! I enjoyed the movie, but I can see why some parents refuse to let their children see it.

So, why if we dislike violence and campaign to see it end do we continue to perpetuate it in our cultures and commit violence at a personal level? Well, for one, it gets things done. For the most part, the majority of change throughout history is precipitated through violent means. The English Civil War, the American and French Revolutions, the Crusades, the Peloponnesian War… all changed history, and all were violent. The black plague didn’t just pop up, it was brought to Europe by the invading Mongol armies. Violence has ensured the survival of entire races, and their near extinction. History is violence. It is Ares. But, like Ares, we need to chain violence in the bonds of Justice. We also need to acknowledge our species’ violent tendencies, and thus we need to acknowledge Ares as a master and a driver of our lives. So hail Ares, and let Him control our furies.